Last week I had written about recycling & harvesting rain water (https://dinshawavari.com/2019/08/08/and-the-rains-are-upon-us/). Then we faced rains in Karachi which I have not seen in decades. The “natural” effect of this was the massive misinformation & incorrect (some genuinely mistaken) social media warnings & alerts on the effects of the rains in Karachi.
One post in
particular, on the flooding of Malir River, got me thinking. At the outset, let me clarify that these are
my personal views and I hope it doesn’t lead to controversy …
Water flowing down Sindh province makes its way into Malir River, which generally lays dry through the year. It’s only when we have sudden rains or this current set of rains when it fills up, and in the latter case, overflowed too.
The major sources of Karachi’s water are the Hub dam, Keenjhar lake & Haleji lake.
Why don’t we “DAM” up the Malir River Basin within Karachi’s limits? Why let the precious rain water go to waste, into the Arabian Sea? If Karachi is seeing its own effects of climate change and our soothsayers predict more of this to come, let’s channelize that water into a massive & natural reservoir down Malir River. A dam in the middle of the City will also become its own, inbuilt tourist attraction (just like Nasser Dam is in Egypt). It’s just a matter of finessing this future dam as the main structural setup is already in place.
There will NOT be any negative environmental effects – in fact it will save water; be a positive social change for the people of Karachi through tourism; it will control the environmental pollutants currently flowing into the Malir River. There will be other benefits!
Do you water experts out there agree to this- or a variation of this idea?
… and now the rains are upon us and we don’t have any catchment system.
Karachi is facing proper monsoon rains for the first time in decades. It’s a good thing too – it cleans up the city; there is more greenery; the temperature drops; and life is so much more pleasant; and the three major reservoirs supplying water to our City get filled.
What is lacking are individual CATCHMENT systems. Each building can easily have their own rainwater harvesting systems – it doesn’t have to be expensive. After the last set of “rains” a few weeks back (though our rains are nothing compared to what India and Bangladesh have to go through during their monsoons and cyclone seasons ☹) I started reading up on rainwater harvesting systems. In our part of the world, Tamil Nadu leads the way! Brazil, Singapore & Australia are other successful examples.
There is a great need for our Government to lead the way in promoting private households, buildings and tall rises to try to catch and reuse rainwater – the WATER IS FREE PEOPLE … we just need to capture this very very scarce resource and utilize it for non-drinking purposes.
This Instagram post from @house.of.leaders got me thinking…
There is a growing disparity I see in our daily lives between the those of us who “have” and the rest of our society. There is a gulf which grows as the years progress.
Information technology, medical technology, smart phones, mortality rates and so much more are, without doubt, getting better – yet I believe the standards of life, in general, are getting worse for the vast majority of the world! As I type this on my laptop in the comfort of my chilled room, @house.of.leaders’ quote glares at me in my face, as I realize 70% of the rest of our Country is withering away in the heat, families trying to get their children a minimal education, so that they can at least read & write, let alone own or use a laptop.
We have a roof over our heads; we wear clean clothes and shoes; have access to daily food, electricity, water, education, transport, medicines, justice … all of which we take for granted. I just have to look out of our car’s window daily to actually see what the rest of our society CANNOT take for granted!
We all have our problems- whether health, mental, physical, work, family. We shouldn’t complain when things don’t always work out for us; because the majority of the world’s population don’t even get a choice of how they can live … they just do!
(Ending Note- coincidentally, a complimentary Tweet by @sudheenkulkarni identifies this deficiency of “compassion” – had both our countries’ governments practiced compassion, I think 50% of these social problems would not exist!)
As a parent, you should be your child’s friend; but, can you be their “BEST” friend? Should you be?
At the very heart of this question is the quote mentioned above- and in my opinion to raise your children well you cannot be their BEST FRIEND. You can be close friends. To be a good kid entails us, as parents, TO BE PARENTS. How can we correct our child if we are their best friend? How can we teach, encourage, feed, advice, “tell”, scold or do so many other things which, as a parent, you can do but as a best friend you cannot or may not be able to?
Practically speaking, even between friends it’s difficult (though not impossible), to correct your best friend– however, as a parent you don’t have that worry.
However, if you are your child’s best friend & vice-versa, won’t you spoil them to maintain that friendship level? Would you be able to say something they are not prepared to hear? Won’t you ‘let things ride’, which actually should have been corrected?
Can you actually raise your child to be a good kid yet maintain a “best friend” relationship?